You partner is beautiful, intelligent and best of all she loves you. When you come home, however, it’s just an ordinary, lethargic day. The spark seems to have gone away. No longer are you excited to run to her after a long days work. She’s a great woman and you know you love her. But you seem to just can’t get it to work. Is the love dying? Is the attraction fading away? Is she just not good enough? Maybe not! Maybe it’s got nothing to do with love. Maybe it has nothing to do with her at all. And maybe it’s just your fleeting testosterone levels.
Depleting testosterone can rob a man of his virility and zest for life. A man with very low testosterone levels can have many forms of erectile dysfunctions, low energy and depression. Often times, these conditions crepe in very slowly that they tend to exist unnoticed. When the symptoms settle in, however, they can be very confusing. Most men who have low testosterone levels do not even know it. Often times they blame their mood swings and low energy levels on work and relationship stresses. For men, however, who experience erectile dysfunctions and do not understand it, they tend to blame their partners for their condition.
This whole scenario can easily turn into a sad state of affairs. Many men with low testosterone levels and do not know this, end up leaving their jobs to look for new careers which they believe will bring back the zest into their lives. When they can no longer feel aroused by their partners, they tend to blame it on the other or failing love. The result of which is an endless cycle of searching and getting nowhere; it’s just one after the other.
Testosterone deficiency can be very misleading. Since symptoms vary from person to person, you really never know when you are deficient. Misconceptions that testosterone deficiency is a condition of aging men make it easier for younger men to dismiss it easily. Truth of the matter is testosterone deficiency can happen to any man at any stage in life. It can even be a disorder of very young males.
Testosterone deficiency is not rare among men in their 30′ss or 40′s. As a matter of fact, in recent years, it has become very common among men belonging to these age levels due to the changing environment. Since testosterone deficiency can be characterized by excessive estrogen in the body, and the environment we exist in is filled with xenoestrogens (environmental estrogens) which we absorb, it is very easy for any person to become testosterone deficient.
Lack of understanding and knowledge has ruined many careers and relationships for men with low testosterone levels. Today, if you are feeling lethargic, irritable or depressed, if you are finding it hard to understand why your sex drive towards your partner is very low, it could be possible that you are already testosterone deficient. Stop beating yourself up over something you cannot understand. Go have your hormone levels checked. Augmenting your testosterone levels could be the simple solution to your problems.
